Sister & Kottke blogged about things you can/cannot do after you’re 25.
My question is this, what if, after reading the list, you choose to do these things anyway? Does it make you vagrant, or more self aware?
I heard part of Talk of the Nation last night coming home. There was a woman on there who has decided to buy things from stores owned by black people. She used the term black, I’m not sure if it was inclusive to people from Jamaica or just African Americans. I’m not sure what to think of this. I have never been a part of a minority in the United States. Being white, male, and 26, I’m probably in every majority. I surely wouldn’t have a problem doing self help economics (her term).
One thing that stirred me up was her discussion of how hispanic people wouldn’t have the trouble that she’s having finding their ethnicity of store owners. She is a very learned person, but this was preposterous to me. Who is she to judge whether or not it would be hard for a different ethnicity? Race, it seemed, was at the heart of her thought process, but from that statement it seems like she is not removing herself from her own shoes and putting on someone else’s. By creating such a stereotype, I think she’s participating in what she is trying to combat.
She talks a lot about finding better role models for her kids. While this is a nice idea and laudable (I can’t quite agree with the limits that she puts on it career options, but I’m a white guy) I’m still stained by how she talks about other races. She emphasizes that this isn’t a race issue after a caller asks about how we should be color blind. If it wasn’t a race issue, why would it matter who you bought from, couldn’t anyone be a role model?
I think my understanding of this issue is greatly affected by the fact that I’m white and male.
In other news, I took Monday off and watched three, count ‘em, three movies.
Adventureland : 4 stars
I love you, man : 3.7 stars
Duplicity : 3.6 stars
I live in a five star world.